Honoring the Knots: Why Not Everything Needs to Be Healed to Move Forward
Some wounds never fully disappear. Some stories don’t need a neat ending to be complete. Often, being witnessed, seen, named, honored, is enough to free up the energy we need to move forward with our lives. Emotional healing isn’t always about "fixing" what hurts. Sometimes, it’s about allowing our pain to have a rightful place in the tapestry of who we are. Trying to fix everything can actually keep us stuck. It sends the message, "You are not enough until this is gone." But you are already enough. Right here. Even with the knots, even with the unfinished chapters. Inner work is not about erasing the past — it’s about learning to weave the past into your present with self-compassion and care.
A soul note for women on the other side of trauma, wondering why they still feel lost.
True trauma recovery is not about constantly excavating what’s wrong with you. At some point, healing shifts from processing the past to embodying the present. From analysis to aliveness. From fixing to remembering. You begin to turn inward not just to repair what’s been harmed, but to reconnect with what’s sacred. Your joy. Your voice. Your stillness. Your yes and your no. Your spiritual root system. Your sacred self.
“You Seem Fine”: The Hidden Struggles of Women with Late-Diagnosed ADHD
At first glance, she seems fine.
She’s thoughtful. Capable. Maybe even a little too responsible.
She remembers your birthday. Holds it together at work. Keeps it all afloat, even when she’s drowning inside.
What you don’t see?
The unread texts, the dishes in the sink, the forgotten appointment that sent her into a shame spiral. The sensory overload after a full day of pretending to be okay. The nights she stays up too late, scrolling to soothe her buzzing brain, or working twice as hard to make up for how scattered she felt that day. This is the reality for many women with undiagnosed or late-diagnosed ADHD. And for years, they didn’t even know it.
Brainspotting and Sacred Becoming: A Journey Back to Wholeness
As a sensitive cycle breaker, you’ve probably learned to function in high-alert mode—always scanning, always doing, always bracing. But your nervous system wasn’t meant to live in fight, flight, or freeze. You deserve more than survival. You deserve to feel safe in your body, not just in your thoughts.
Brainspotting is gentle, intuitive, and trauma-informed. You stay in control of your process at all times. There’s no need to perform or explain. Just your presence is enough.
Coming Home to Yourself: Inner Child Healing, Somatic Therapy & IFS-Informed Care for Sensitive Cycle Breakers
When we’ve lived through trauma or difficult experiences—especially attachment wounds or emotional neglect—parts of us adapt in brilliant ways. They become perfectionists, people-pleasers, caretakers, or critics. These aren’t flaws. They’re protectors. They’ve kept you safe.
IFS-informed therapy gives us a way to connect with these parts. Many of them are younger—you might think of them as inner children—still carrying fear, grief, or the belief that love has to be earned.
Brainspotting: A Gentle, Deep Way to Heal Trauma (When Talk Therapy Isn’t Enough)
Brainspotting is a gentle, body-based therapy that helps you process trauma without needing to re-tell the whole story. It works deep in the brain and nervous system—beyond what words can reach.
Brainspotting uses your eye position to access where trauma, stress, or emotional pain is held in your body. A trained therapist helps you find a “brainspot”—a point in your visual field linked to an unresolved experience.
Loving Without Losing Yourself: A Somatic Guide to Interdependent Relationships
What if intimacy didn’t require self-sacrifice? What if love could feel nourishing, spacious, and empowering instead of overwhelming?
This is the foundation of interdependent relationships—where you can experience deep connection without losing yourself. In this guide, we’ll explore a somatic and attachment-based approach to building relationships rooted in self-trust, mutual care, and embodied presence.
Beyond Pathology: The Koshas as a Map for Holistic Trauma Healing
The koshas, a yogic framework from the Upanishads, offer us a map of the self- not as a fragmented system of dysfunctions, but as a holistic, interconnected whole. They guide us beyond a pathologizing, symptom-driven view of trauma into a deeper, more expansive experience of healing.
The Ones Who Choose to Heal: What It Means to Be a Cycle Breaker in a World That Resists Change
Some people are born into patterns that are meant to end with them. Maybe you are one of them. Maybe you have felt it—that deep knowing that something in your family, your culture, your history needs to change. The weight of unspoken pain. The echoes of past wounds. The inherited beliefs that tell you who you are supposed to be.
You’re Not Bad at Boundaries: You Were Just Taught to Feel Guilty
Because the hard part isn’t setting boundaries—it’s building up the courage to speak one's truth, and then navigating what happens afterward. It’s the panic and shame (sometimes rage) that arises when others react to boundaries poorly. It’s the deep-seated belief that others' emotional responses mean they have done something wrong. That they are bad, mean, or too much. That maybe they are crazy for expecting their boundaries to be honored at all.
Embodying Self-Love: How to Cultivate Compassion for Your Body
Many of us carry deep-seated beliefs shaped by past experiences, trauma, or cultural trauma. These beliefs can disconnect us from our bodies and leave us feeling inadequate. But here’s the truth: your body doesn’t need to be fixed. It needs to be heard. By engaging in practices that center the body, you can begin to release these patterns and replace them with compassion and trust.
When Anxiety Feels Like Disconnection and How to Ground Through Your Senses
Grounding is simply a way to help yourself feel more steady and connected when anxiety makes you feel out of place or untethered. Think of it like pressing a reset button for your mind and body. When you’re grounded, you feel more present—like your feet are firmly planted on the ground instead of floating away on a cloud of worry.
How EMDR Can Help You Find Peace from Anxiety for women in oregon
EMDR is a therapy that helps you heal from past experiences contributing to anxiety. It’s not about endless analysis or talk sessions. EMDR focuses on helping your brain and body process old memories and feelings so they don’t keep showing up in the present.
i am this breath: a practice for uncertain times
When we allow our heart to close in response to fear arising, we begin to separate ourselves from the very connections- even remotely or energetically- that help us to heal.
Integrating spiritual expression into your healing journey
Spiritual growth can help soften those layers and allow you to reconnect with the wisdom that’s always been there, even if it’s been clouded by fear or past experiences. When you create space for spiritual practices, you’re inviting that deeper connection to come through. Over time, this helps you feel more resilient, more in tune with yourself, and more aligned with your purpose. You learn to trust not only the healing process, but also yourself and your intuition.
The Link Between Anxiety and Autoimmune Conditions: Finding Peace in the Overwhelm for women in Oregon
Research has shown that chronic stress can exacerbate autoimmune conditions and even play a role in their onset, alongside other contributing factors. . Anxiety keeps your nervous system in a state of hyper-vigilance, which can further destabilize your body’s natural rhythms. If you’ve ever noticed how your autoimmune symptoms flare during periods of high stress or how living with an unpredictable body heightens your anxiety, you’re experiencing this connection firsthand.
How Trauma Impacts Self-Trust (and Gentle Steps to Rebuild It)
Trauma doesn’t just affect what happened in the past—it shapes how we experience ourselves and the world in the present. Whether it came from a single life-altering event, ongoing harm, or subtle but persistent wounds, trauma can disrupt our ability to feel safe within ourselves. It can leave us second-guessing our perceptions, disconnected from our emotions, and unsure of our own inner guidance.
how to set boundaries for self care and healthy relationships
When you set a boundary, you are not closing a door to connection. You are opening a door to deeper, more authentic relationships—with others and with yourself. You are saying, “My needs matter too,” and that is an act of self-love.
Why Women in Their 30s Are Seeking Spiritual Therapy and Connection in Their Healing Journeys
Spiritual therapy offers a gentle invitation to reconnect. Not necessarily to religion (unless that feels aligned for you), but to something deeply personal—a sense of inner wisdom, a relationship with your own soul, or a felt experience of connection with the vastness of life itself. This kind of healing goes beyond symptom management; it asks us to listen inward, to slow down, and to trust that our inner landscape holds truths worth honoring.
What is functional freeze, and how does it relate to anxiety and stress?
Functional freeze is a protective response from your nervous system. When you face stress or danger, your body has a few options: fight, flight, or freeze. Freeze happens when neither fighting nor fleeing feels possible. You have high peaks (anxiety, panic, overwhelm), and low valleys (freeze). Your system "freezes" to keep you safe by conserving energy and avoiding harm.